Blending Households: 7 Easy Ways to Feel Comfortable Sharing a Space

Moving In Together is a Major Change

Moving in together is a big (and exciting!) step, but it often comes with one little problem: too much stuff.

 

Moving in together isn’t just about combining stuff, it’s about creating a home that works for both of you. With a little planning, teamwork, and intention, you can avoid clutter and build a space that feels open, calm, and truly yours.

When two households combine, so do the furniture, kitchen gadgets, decor, and random junk drawers. Without a plan, your fresh start can quickly turn into a cluttered space that feels cramped instead of cozy.

But it doesn’t have to be that way.


Here are five smart steps to keep your space organized before, during, and after the move-in process, so you can focus on enjoying your new chapter, not battling the clutter.

1. Have the Space and Stuff Conversation Early

Before a single box gets packed, sit down and talk about what’s coming into the new home.

Things to Discuss:

  • How much space do we have?
  • What are our non-negotiable “keep” items?
  • What can we donate, sell, or let go of?

This conversation sets the tone and helps avoid arguments (or awkward moments) later.

2. Declutter Before You pack

Ask Yourselves:

  • Do we need two of these?
  • Have I used this in the past year?
  • Does this fit our new space or lifestyle?

Donate items, sell what you can, and be ruthless about what makes the cut.

3. Create a "Merge and Purge" Plan

Avoid last-minute decisions (and duplicate toasters) with a plan:

  • Decide who’s bringing what.
  • Label boxes clearly by room and category.
  • Color-code shared vs personal items.

Planning ahead prevents stress when it’s time to unpack.

4. Maximize Storage from the Start

Once you’re moved in, smart storage solutions will help keep your space clutter-free.

Storage Ideas:

  • Under-bed bins
  • Closet organizers
  • Storage ottomans
  • Labelled baskets or containers
  • Wall hooks & floating shelves

Every item should have a “home” or it will end up as clutter.

5. Set Organization Habits Together

Staying organized is an ongoing effort especially in a shared space.

Habits to Create:

  • Monthly declutter days
  • Shared cleaning schedules
  • Drop zones for everyday items (keys, shoes, mail)
  • Open communication about what’s working and what’s not

These small habits add up to a peaceful, organized home.

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